Wednesday 24 August 2011

I want my Superman to be a Mr. Simple

Every girl wants their own superman. A guy they can call their own. A guy who cherishes, love and care for them. For some of us that is one hard situation to have.

I finally got the courage to tell the guy i like after 3 years of liking him. But as i have expected, it was not meant to be. Did i feel devastated? Not so.. Am i heartbroken? not either. Just disappointed of the situation. As my friends know me, i am not the kind of person who goes for a serious relationship. So i was not really that bummed. I however would like to wish this guy of mine a good life.. Especially in mending his broken heart. Even if we were not meant to be, there is a lovely girl out there who will heal the heart of yours and keep it so that no one else can break it.. You can count on that.

A guy is sometimes a tough nut to crack. they are sometime egoistic and just not emotional. that is where we have to understand them i tutor them on the ways to treat a girl. Even if that girl does not happen to be you, we just have to protect us girls because we are the only ones who knows what we are feeling. So ladies, all this jealousy and rage is never good as it is a deadly sin.

Polygamy... A word that is usually feared but the ladies. The thought of your husband with another woman. Sharing his love, time and attention. Not all guys are perfect. Not all guys think clearly. And not all of them are useless. Polygamy should be use to help those in need. A woman who is sick and in need to be taken care of. The girl who nursed you or your sick wife and was there during the darkest time. Those are valid reasons in my book. But if that man wants to marry a young girl just because he wants to and he can, we have some serious issues to discuss.. Seeing a few of my friends going through this situation make s me wonder about my future to. Maybe now I'll say that i will be ok with it but what if it those happen and i think otherwise. That is something i have to ponder in the future.

Superman, someone who is strong and will always save us. That is usually what we look for in a guy. Someone who will always be there for us no matter how hard the situation is. Someone who will put himself in danger just to protect others. We always dream of that guy who will swoop in and save us. mending the broken heart in an instant. Cherishing every moment spent. But we always want things to be simple. No drama, no hassle, No complication. And easy journey. But why is it that sometimes that is impossible. To have a clear road ahead, without any obstacles? Well it is because it test us. Test us on how we will cope through the bad and the good. But when hitting an obstacle, do not let out the rage, shout or curse. Instead take a deep breathe and understand the situation. See the mistakes as well as a solution. it is never a one person fault. It takes two to tango. so both party will be at fault. Understand each other. Learn form the mistakes.. Grow with one another. Understand that is is hard to find love no matter your gender or your status. Cherish it when u do find that special someone.

P/s: Thanks to my lovely roommate Ms Ruhana Omar, I was introduced to Korean Bands. i do choose what type of song i like. And below just happens to be two of the latest ones... Enjoy

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